Being late does not mean.."looser"

Being late does not mean that you are a looser. Some time it happens a guy who has just joined the school late in his year or may be because he fail in time in his school or college days, for which he is late in his career. People take all this in a very different ways. in corporate culture while interviewing this things has been taking much noticed. Life is unpredictable things mite happen because of some reasons or mite be wantedly.. But it does not shows that u r a looser.. Looser is a guy who sits and thinks, things will happen to him, Who does not give any afford for his work or Who has failed earlier and things he will fail and dont give any afford to it. Reasons can be many for everything.. It can b an excuse also.. depends on person to person.. All the fingers are not same ..the same way every one is not same in this world. its all depend on our physical activity and the mentality we carry, its all how we think and make use of the things around us. Our thinking and mentality is everything which make s us big or small.. How we think how we execute is important. "Life goes on" there are people who could not manage or handle the situation . people get frustrated easily and make mistakes in life ..but thats how they are tend to do so.. but important is they dont repeat it. looser do it again n again.. bt tose who are not learn from it. It is said that failure is important inn life. I dont know how true is it till now... may B it would be to early to coment on this.. bt yes i can say u should taste the failure... It will teach u things which is grounded and will make u understand lot many things....

Stranger... Yet So closed...!!!

U never Know when life is going to take turn... I got a call from a wrong no. and as always i didn't bother who it was... But after couple of days. I got few sms from the same no. and followed for many days. It was a girl who called me and wanted to have friendship, for few days i thought some one is jockeying with me ... So i find out it was a stranger and by insisting so much, we started talking .. it was girl from different state. we gradually started talking and soon become friends. I trusted that she was not a fake and though i got a good friend with whom i can talk and share, when i was left all alone. we used to talk every day. I have never seen a 23 year old girl so Innocent in my life. 1st i used to think she is pretending but i was wrong ...as we keep talking found out thatshe was real and not a fake. She has her own world and dont have anything to do with the out side world, she was not she was not into any kind of fb or orkut and so on. she had her dream world and thats what was every thing for her. As we kept sharing things she told me one thing about her which shocked me completely. She had CANCER. It freaked me out and i was speechless. i had nothing to say and nothing to care for. She used to hate if anybody would ask her about her health. she was very ziddhi and short temper. bt she was the sweetest girl i can say... the worst part is we never met each other and did even see each other in any kind of pic. i must say she was beautiful though. she used to call me Rude. she always greet me with the word RUDE. which used to make me happy the way she used to call it.. i could hear it some time. she was very preety and she always used to care for me lot. I miss her so much . I lost a very good friend of mine. who i really cared for and was worried for. she left all on 4th june. Her bro told me that she used to say him that Mr. rude wil come and will take her out off the hospital. I could never even see her. I feel Bad. She was angry on me becoz i never went to see her on her last days.... A strange story happened with me.. which will always b with me. Life is more of such things... I wish her soul rest in peace. I miss u sanjana... !!!!

S!lent Sm!le...!!!

Its a Simple Smile on Some ones Face, Which Makes us Smile,
Its a smile of A Kid, Which makes whole Family Smile,
Its a Smile, Which Cools Us down,
Its Nt a gift, Its a smile after giving the gift makes Us smile,
Its a S!lent Sm!le, When we r not 2gether n still Smile,
Its a Silent Smile, which I carry always with me ,
I cant smile though I smile,
Though I smile , Cant show it,
I show it, Though Its a silent Smile,
Its a S!lent Smile ,which Kills me and pians me ,
A smile which i Carry though, It pinches me ,
It hurts me always , when ever I smile,
A S!lent Sm!le, A S!lent Sm!le...

Fighting AlonE..!!!

There is this battel called LIFE...!!! When I was a Kid. I wating to get elder as soon as possible, as i thought life is so much fun and will have blast always...(life is fun i hve no dought in it)Bt was in the Fancy world. As i hve seen the cartoon and took ma life in the same way... But latter i realised Life is nt like as we see in movies or cartoons...Life is beyond Imagination...Its more of Like a sky which is huge and unmeasurable..Its actualy a battel... When natural things like Sun, Moon has to fight with the clouds to b visible ..Then we r just a human being a normal creature created by god ...How can we b without fighting...Life is like a water fall... which looks good from far ..bt when u see it from near u realise, How much pain it takes after falling and then flowing in the direction ...We are also like the same normal animals in jungle.. we hve to fight for our living and food as the same they do... Not much of difference except the words we use and talk..or else the style is the same,....
Fighting alone is related to your living and the life we have... I do have to fight daily to get ma food and living ...When ever i wanted a support from some one or a small help ...I din nt get tht on time or say never got it...I hve none to share ma feelings or ma cries or ma worries..Its all i hve to do it all ALONE...!! Ma worries ma Imagination ma feelings are mine..None wants to hear u when u sad or when u ned any help.. Bt when u happy people come and join u....Bt the chances of being jealous out of it is more...!! Its better I keep fighting alone..and atleast hve none to blame upon...the best would be will nt expect from any one... Its so easy to say, Chillax things would be fine and ned to worry ...bt s it realy happnes ..I guess no. we do worry and tak tension becoz I knw I am fighting alone....!! Its ma battel and its up to me. hw do i win it..by fighting alone or with the group...I wana be like a tree.. which never complains about anything ..wheather its a suuny day or a Rainny day..He has to bear it and without complain it does..God i wish u make like that and i will FIGHT ALONE..!!!!!!!!

Wishes...!!!!

Wishes... From our childhood till we die , We have one or the other wish. This. word I am using since i was not even knowning the meaning of it.. I wished always to have one or the other thing, When i wish 2 have a cycle, the next wish was on ma mind was a BIKE... It has never end till now...I knw all of us have a wish, from kids to a old man.. A kid wish to grow soon, A old man wish to get youger, A butiful girl wish to be a model, and a poor man wish to get richer...So we all wish... The word Wish is attach to us from the day we are born and till the date we die..!!!
How many wishes come true? Do we stop wishing?
Wishes are depend on our luck and hard work.. bt still we keep wishing, how many of us realy work hard full fill our wish.. Out of evey thing we do how much of our wishes come true. Wishes come true only when we work on it not only by praying or wishing..Its ver
y important that we wish and try to execute those things to ful fill our wish...Becoz "wishes" are only things, which makes us work hard and live life ... If we stop wishing then it means our life is END... I leart one thing from life never stop wishing what ever we wanted in life...Its not that what ever we wish will be ours..bt ya for sure there will be certain things and wishes which will come true.. Bt for all this we really need to work hard and do all those requried things to full feel our wishes... Wishes are as important as food and Air for us to servive... I wish again see i said wishes are important...I wish all ma dreams and yours wishes come true..Do work Hard and all will B set...Wish u all the best ... Dont stop wishing...Cherz

Do v realy get, wTT we want....

Some time I feel, what i wanted i always get in ma life. Though its not true. Wt we always wish does not come true. I have lot of dreams but without some once support, its not going to b achived. Life is always unprectable. when ever i come close to get something, it kicks me out, It never alows me to hold it or b with it.. So some time i feel, I shud not dream or I shud not wish and just keep up the good work. which I always do.. But if u think deeply, with out wishes or dream u cant do anything... I always wishes i should have ma new Cycle in school, then a bike and then a car...etc..I always wanted a kind of house, A car which i prefer, A girl whome i want to marry...there are so many things which we wish or plan.. Simple to simple things we wish n plan..Bt how much realy comes true...May be buying a Car or shopping any thing can come true..
Bt in life things which we realy want, where we r emotionaly attached to some thing or have a deep feeling towards something or any relationship...wtt happens in that case, Most of the case we plan bt fail (no offense to any one) Some time the real things which we want ,we dont get it...Or In simple words its struggling ..with out this not possible. Some time I feel do we wish more than, what we deserve...?? I dont knw could not come to any conclusion..becoz i still wish and want many things in ma life ..for which I knw I hve to struggle....I wish all ,what they want they shud get it...Its very tough. when u die for something and u dont get it...!!!!!

The UNEXPECTED....

Some time something happens which u never wanted 2 happen in your life...An unexpected thing which make u feel bad or change u completly, it can be in positive sence n negative as wel..Its up 2 us how we take it...becoz things which we never wanted 2 happen in our life and if it happens,then we r broken and try 2 hold it so tht we dont do any thing wrong, bt still feel bad from inside ..may b to show people we may b strong bt some how we dont forget the Unexpected .. I dont knw when we cant forget it..The pain remains the same..In all this, Time is the biggest factor..Now i dont trust time also becoz u can only trust yourself.do the good work , wtt ever th result may b atleast it keeps u happy becoz u tried and did a good work..I dont knw how much GOD helps us in it..when we dont want something n thn when it happens we say no GOD is there and its vice versa...Bt now i dont belive in any religion, temple and praying.. the all mighty is there .propably he is helping me in wtt I am doing and thts y M able 2 do it..Bt i wont give it full credit, becoz wtt I didnot wanted has already happned. so how can i give him the credit for the good one, which may happen or the work m doing, may be succesful in tht..If u there then make those thing good and happy which realy means a lot 2 me..give me those things if u can..Life is very unpredectable, wtt may happen after i post this blogg i dont knw..bt i hve a plan bt wil i go as per th plan ...i really dont knw..beocz the So called "GOD" as also made some plan..so may b he will impose me 2 walk accordingly and make ma plan a failuer or may b a succesful as wel..

the Unexpected happens when u dont expect it at all.. whne u feel things are ok and going good..thn b ready 2 face the unexpected..becoz thts how life is..the most unexpected and unpredectable..Never break down atleast from inside never it will kill u, the unexpected is a very powerful. it breaks u completly bt learn to fight have balls 2 face the worst..n prove to your self that u could do it and fight with th unexpected..

Just know one thing keep working n keep you self busy..